Don’t know who made this comment but the last time I checked it’s Bonnie putting herself on the line to protect and save Elena and Bonnie who is doing spells to save the vampires. Bonnie who even without magic has saved lives like when she pulled Matt out of the water so whoever made this statement is not paying attention to the show or is a clear Bonnie hater. Bonnie not only protects herself but she has protected and saved others time and time again.
You can make the claim that there are other witches all you want to. Bonnie is more unique in that she’s the only main witch around in a town filled with vampires and more vampires every season. There’s also the fact that she and not some other witches are the reason why every single vampire on the show is still alive right now.
Bonnie is special just because JP writes like crap for Bonnie doesn’t make her any less special.

Is that why you keep trying to find ways to prolong the triangle? Is that why you talk about Elena’s “feelings” for Damon and vise versa and how it’s going to play out next season while at the same time talk about Elena’s feelings for and connection to Stefan? Is that why ever season there is so much focus on who’s Elena’s going to pick and her being torn between the brothers? IS that why so much of Elena’s storyline has been and will be surrounding her feelings for both brothers and how she can’t let neither of them go?
Is that why there’s so many promo pictures every season with just the three characters in the Triangle? (Clearly showing that it’s a big deal for producers) The triangle is not driving the show when you make excuses to keep the triangle going even though many are tired of it by now?
Stop talking Julie and take that bull shit lie some where else.
“She’s being so selfish”

Being so Selfish

So SELFISH

SELFISH. The same Bonnie who put her life on the line for Elena and was willing to die for Elena and almost did die trying to save Elena. As well as saving Damon despite how has done things to hurt her and working with him and saving the other vampires.
Bonnie Bennett SELFISH?

Some seem to think that if Damon only cares about Elena living even if it meant all of her family and friends dying as romantic or some great, positive sign of love on Damon’s part to Elena. What is so loving about a man who’s willing to let every single one of your family/friends dying or who doesn’t care about how losing them will make your heart break and make you grieve? This is a serious question. Because love is just not about caring about having the person around physically. It’s also about caring for a person’s emotional well being.
Some seem to find it okay if Damon has Elena around physically by keeping her alive even if that means she is in extreme emotional pain from losing some that she loves. So shouldn’t Damon also care about Elena emotionally and mentally? Should he not want to see her go through the pain of losing someone?
If a man doesn’t give a shit about your family/friends and what they go through then he’s not worth being with. If he doesn’t care at least for the sake of the woman because he knows that the woman loves her family/friends and doesn’t respect how her losing them affects her than he is not worth it.
Family comes first to me and a man cares about me and claims to love me, then he should respect my family/friends and care about what happens to them or at least feel something if they die or get hurt.
I don’t get the “Oh Damon would let Elena’s friends die to save her, he will do it even if Elena asks him not to. How romantic and loving of him” Don’t get how some think this is a true sign of love on Damon’s part.
(Yes Damon has saved lives before but I don’t get how some find his attitude towards Matt getting saved or how some pointed out “I would gladly let Bonnie die” as some sign of grand love and such a positive for DE)
Bonnie gives Damon an aneurysm, Is not okay with the vampires hurting her, her friends/family, or innocent people: “Bonnie is a bitch, she’s so judgmental and a hypocrite. She hates Vampires, attacking poor Damon, she should have ignored Caroline killing an innocent person, Ugh she should die.”
Bonnie saves Elena’s and the vampires lives: *Crickets*
